"If You See Something Say Something"
You've seen the signs at the airport or your local subway station. This works very well in terms of transportation security but, when it comes to protecting family members in nursing care or other vulnerable adults, it's more about feeling than seeing.
Call it your "gut", "women's intuition" or just a healthy skepticism about what is going on around you. The bottom line is that if you think something is wrong, chances are you're right.